Use These Life-Changing Tips to Get Ahead of the Rest.

You’ll Need: a computer, a glass of wine, and a sense of humor.

Step One: Plan to Use This Dating Site

The first step to getting dating advice is to clearly define what kind of advice you’re looking for. Is it relationship tips? Is it advice about your online dating experiences? Is it dating tips in general? Etc.

You can do this by taking a poll on your social network of choice, asking your friends and other interesting people to weigh in about the subject at hand. Or, if you’re more comfortable, head over to and ask some smart people a question about dating and the people you’ve noticed. You can also read some good online advice from other people by visiting,, OKCupid, and more.

The goal here is to figure out what you need to know about dating, whether you want to open yourself up to meeting new people, or you simply want some “backhanded” dating tips that are more like fast food than haute cuisine.

Once you’ve decided on the kind of advice you want, you need to pick the right place to find it. Most places will help you find some dating tips, but it’s best to try to find the most specific type of advice you’re looking for. For example, this site will help you figure out how to brush up on your handshake game, while this one will give you some tips about kissing. And who knows? You might even find some tips about finding a phone number from someone you’re crushing on. It’s all good.

Step Two: Create a Profile

After you’ve decided what kind of advice you’re looking for, you need to find a place where you can get it. Some sites, like OKCupid and, are clearly focused on catering to relationships, so if you’re looking for tips about how to get in the door or get over a first date, it’s probably going to be a little hard to find.

Others, like or, are just focused on getting you laid, so if you’re looking for tips about how to get your crush to like you back, it’ll be harder to find the advice you need. But, that doesn’t mean it’s impossible! Many sites cater to more of an audience than a specific type
How to start a conversation with a stranger online

Here’s how to proceed in a way that will help you get past the anxiety of approaching a stranger you’ve never met:

Why are you nervous? This is the first thing you need to ask yourself before you go out there and start talking to strangers. Everyone approaches dating in their own way, but some people tend to do it better than others—and for good reason. (There’s no sense in getting into your methodology here, because it can be a free-for-all; this is about practicing and getting used to the approach in an online environment.)

Why aren’t you confident? Confidence is paramount to the success of every kind of interaction, especially when you’re trying to start dating. It’s important to have strong mental fortitude to get past the initial discomfort with strangers.

Who are you if I get to know you? I think everyone would be a little weirded out if they were asked a question like this when they were in their own home. But, online you are on a totally different playing field. If you don’t know who you are, how can a new person get to know you? You should at least let them know what kind of person you are, and that’s what you will do here. Start by saying, “Hi. I’m Kim.”

Should I ask you about yourself? These questions don’t have to be formal, but they should be meant to give people a glimpse into your personality, or at least a key part of it, and you should do the same.

What do you do? It’s important to share something that you are passionate about, or that you’re at least interested in, with someone you meet online, because that is one of the elements that make you unique. Not everyone will be interested in the things that I’m passionate about, but they should at least be able to see that you have interests and are in fact an interesting person.

What kind of people do you want to date? Who do you want to meet? You should tell the person you want to meet that you are looking for an outgoing, confident, intelligent, and authentic person in regards to dating. Someone who is willing to put in the effort to meet new people. Someone who is willing to be taken seriously.

It’s not so bad being alone. You don’t have to have someone to be with you all the time. Love can be found in many places, and

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